The Wife And The Window @

A young couple moves into a new neighborhood. The next
morning, while they are eating breakfast, the young woman sees her
neighbor hang the wash outside.
That laundry is not very clean, she said, she doesn't
know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap.
Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time her
neighbor would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the
same comments.
About one month later, the woman was surprised to see a
nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband: "Look! She has
learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this."
The husband said: "I got up early this morning and
cleaned our windows!"
And so it is with life:
What we see when watching
others depends on the purity of the window through which we look. Before we give
any criticism, it might be a good idea to check our state of
mind and ask ourselves if we are ready to see the good rather than to be
looking for something in the person we are about to judge. "